Your own proficiency is hindering you. By definition, it’s inevitable. Proficiency is about gaining skill through repetition. The more skillful you become, the less energy it takes to sustain your level of competence. When it comes to how you ...
I saw my shadow today. It had the shape of independence. Often, when my inner critic speaks, I get an earful about my penchant for acting alone. Perhaps my inner critic is merely echoing what someone told another about ...
My wife, Anna, is a voracious reader. She’s also the smartest woman I know. I don’t think those attributes are unrelated. She’s smart because she reads and she reads because she’s smart. I’ve not always been so smart. Up ...
I’m a huge proponent of smart action. As the intelligence researcher Robert Sternberg put it, “The essence of intelligence would seem to be in knowing when to think and act quickly, and knowing when to think and act slowly.” Our ...
Recently, I was waiting to meet a friend at a casual dining restaurant. Seated a table or so away from me were four women engaged in in a very lively conversation—about makeup. I couldn’t help but overhear them talk about ...
I'm told by others I'm headstrong. (I don't think they're referring to my intellect.)
Perseverance is a terrific quality until you continue to pursue something you should really not. Then it's stubbornness.
I grew up at the foothills of inspiration. Right outside my front-door loomed Colorado’s majestic Pikes Peak. One of the first things I noticed when I moved to Minnesota was that there were no mountains—lots of gorgeous lakes, but ...
“Most ideas are born and lost in isolation,” writes Scott Belsky in his book Making Ideas Happen (Penguin, 2012). If you want to take your idea production game to the next level, this book is for you. It’s packed ...
Did you have a productive day? I ask myself that at the end of the day, and I ask my friends and family too. The answer I’m looking for is based on how much got done. Productivity means completion. ...
Mark Twain once quipped, “Nothing so needs reforming as other people’s habits.” What’s so easy to see in others, is difficult to spot in ourselves— especially so when we set out to create habits that support our long term ...